Is it Illegal to Snoop on my Spouse’s Phone? (2024)

By Eric Marcy, Esq.

When one thinks their spouse may be having an affair or is engaging in economic infidelity, there is the tendency to consider accessing the cell phone to see who they are communicating with and what is being discussed.

In the context of a potential divorce, such snooping may violate State and/or Federal law and expose one to potential civil and/or criminal liability.

Criminal and Civil Exposure for Accessing the Content of Another’s Cell Phone

Like many questions of law, the answer to whether there is liability for snooping on a spouse’s cell phone text messages, is “it depends.” This is because the civil and/or criminal exposure for such snooping is fact intensive.

Some, but not all, of the factors to consider in determining a snooping spouse’s right to access and the resulting potential liability include:

  1. Were the parties living together at the time of the interception?
  2. Whose name is the phone is in, who pays the bills, on what account?
  3. Was the discovery of the text message inadvertent?
  4. Is there a history of access?
  5. What is the expectation of privacy in that phone and line – was access “without authorization”?
  6. Was the disclosure used for other tortious purposes, i.e., disclosure to third parties, humiliation, embarrassment, or for economic injury?
  7. Can it be argued that this is not an active conversation but rather simply the storage of older digital information on a common electronic device?
  8. What psychological or economic damages resulted from the act of interception?
  9. Would the facts in this case rise to the level of common law invasion of privacy, i.e., would it be “highly offensive to a reasonable person?”

The general answer to determine civil or criminal liability is whether the access occurred without authorization and whether there was an expectation of privacy. To the extent that information is then disclosed to third parties, resulting in humiliation, embarrassment, and/or for economic injury, the potential liability increases.

Federal and State Wiretap Acts

Both the Federal and State Wiretap Acts provide for potential criminal and civil liability for unlawfully accessing wire communications.

The Federal Courts case law addressing whether Federal Wiretap Act should be implicated and prosecuted in Family Law matters is not uniform. It is hard to imagine that the United States Attorney’s Office would pursue such a prosecution unless it relates to far more serious Federal crimes.

New Jersey’s Wiretapping and Electronic Surveillance Control Act (“Wiretap Act”) will be enforced in Family Law matters when there is an expectation of privacy and especially when there is harm done to the victim. There is no “interspousal immunity” for “intentional torts” which includes intercepting electronic communications to which one is not a party.

Although both the Federal and State Wiretap Acts speak in terms of the interception of “aural” communications, the interception of text messages may create exposure. Aural communications are defined as “a transfer containing the human voice at any point between and including the point of origin and the point of reception.” Both Acts also set forth a general definition of “Electronic Communication” which is quite broad and applies to “any transfer of signs, signals, writing, images, sounds, data, or intelligence of any nature.”

While the Acts do not specifically include the term “text” communications, one should not want to become the test case. Based upon the language and policies behind the Wiretap Act, accessing and sharing text messages requires the consent of at least one party for the disclosure of text messages sent between cellphones.

Civil Liability

In the context of divorce litigation, the unlawful access of wire communications may result in a civil action for damages as part of the Family Part divorce proceedings. New Jersey courts have recognized civil liability for tortious conduct towards a spouse. The courts do not look kindly upon tortious conduct between spouses and an unauthorized interception of oral or wire communications may result in an independent claim of damages in any pending divorce proceeding. The Wiretap Act provides a civil remedy for those who are victims of unlawful oral or wire interception and, in pertinent part, provides:

2A:156A-24. Civil action for damages, attorney’s fee by persons whose communications are intercepted unlawfully

24. Any person whose wire, electronic or oral communication is intercepted, disclosed, or used in violation of this act shall have a civil cause of action against any person who intercepts, discloses, or uses or procures any other person to intercept, disclose or use, such communication; and shall be entitled to recover from any such person:

a. Actual damages, but not less than liquidated damages computed at the rate of $100.00 a day for each day of violation, or $1,000.00, whichever is higher;

b. Punitive damages; and

c. A reasonable attorney’s fee and other litigation costs reasonably incurred.

Even if the actual damages are relatively nominal, the exposure to punitive damages, the recovery of attorneys’ fees and costs can make the penalties quite substantial, not to mention the impact on the credibility of a client and counsel in the eyes of the court.

Criminal Liability

New Jersey case law interprets its Wiretap Act to include electronic mail, text messages and emails withing the definition of “electronic” and “wire” communications. The unlawful interception of wire communications, including text messages can expose one to criminal liability. The Wiretap Act, in pertinent part provides:

2A:156A-3. Interception, disclosure, use of wire, electronic, oral communication; violation

3. Except as otherwise specifically provided in this act, any person who:

a. Purposely intercepts, endeavors to intercept, or procures any other person to intercept or endeavor to intercept any wire, electronic or oral communication; or

b. Purposely discloses or endeavors to disclose to any other person the contents of any wire, electronic or oral communication, or evidence derived therefrom, knowing, or having reason to know that the information was obtained through the interception of a wire, electronic or oral communication; or

c. Purposely uses or endeavors to use the contents of any wire, electronic or oral communication, or evidence derived therefrom, knowing or having reason to know, that the information was obtained through the interception of a wire, electronic or oral communication;

shall be guilty of a crime of the third degree. Subsections b. and c. of this section shall not apply to the contents of any wire, electronic or oral communication, or evidence derived therefrom, that has become common knowledge or public information.

While County Prosecutors may be loathe to criminalize family disputes and may exercise discretion to leave such issues to the Family Court, the potential for criminal charges is still present. It should be remembered that should an egregious and clear violation be brought to the court’s attention, the court itself may have an obligation to refer the matter for criminal investigation.

Conclusion:

Remember, anyone who seeks to use intercepted text communications in a family law proceeding is at risk for the filing of separate tort action for damages or worse.

If you believe your spouse has been snooping and improperly accessed or intercepted private telephone calls or text messages, you should consult with counsel as to your rights.

If you have done the snooping and you may have improperly accessed or intercepted telephone calls or text messages, you should consult with counsel to determine how best to protect yourself.

There is no charge for an initial consultation and an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure.

References:

White v. White, 344 N.J. Super. 211, 222, 781 A.2d 85 (Ch. Div. 2001)

State v. Gaikwad, 349 N.J. Super. 62, 76-77, 793 A.2d 39, 2002 N.J. Super. LEXIS 140 (App. Div. 2002)

Scott v. Scott, 277 N.J. Super. 601, 608-610, 615-616 (Ch. Div. 1994)

Tevis v. Tevis, 79 N.J. 422 (1979)

N.J. Stat. Ann. § 2A:156A-1, et. seq., “New Jersey Wiretapping and Electronic Surveillance Control Act.”

N.J. Stat. Ann. § 2A:156A-3 – “Interception, disclosure, use of wire, electronic, oral communication; violation”

Model Civil Jury Charge 3.14 “Invasion of Privacy”

Model Civil Jury Charge “8.60 Punitive Damages Actions — General”

Restatement (Second) of Torts, § 652B (1977)

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Is it Illegal to Snoop on my Spouse’s Phone? (2024)

FAQs

Is it Illegal to Snoop on my Spouse’s Phone? ›

The Electronic Communications Privacy Act (ECPA) is a federal law that makes it a crime to access someone else's private communications without permission. It covers cell phones, computer use, email, social media accounts, and other types of electronic communications.

Can I sue my husband for checking my phone? ›

Criminal Penalties for Spying

For example, if your spouse is found guilty of violating the Federal Wire Tapping Act, at a very minimum he or she can be ordered to stop the illegal acts. For example, a court can order him or her to remove spyware from your phone or computer, stop recording your calls, etc.

Is it illegal to look at your spouse's text messages? ›

Generally, texts and emails are private. Thus, you don't have a right to look at them without your spouse's consent.

Can your spouse spy on your phone? ›

Regardless of whether you use an iPhone or an Android smartphone, it is possible for someone to install spyware onto your phone that secretly tracks and reports on your activity. It's even possible for someone to monitor your cell phone's activity without ever even touching it.

Can I check my spouse's phone to prove cheating? ›

Using Phone Records to Prove Adultery

When a spouse suspects adultery, the information in any of their shared phone records can be used against the other. Even if the suspected spouse elects not to provide those records, your attorney can petition the court to get them from your carrier.

Can I get a copy of my spouse's text messages? ›

Your Texting History is Almost Always Accessible

Some people who backed up their text messages to a shared cloud account with their spouse are able to view their spouse's text messages. Logistically, most people have to ask their spouse or their spouse's paramour for the information, or to inspect their cellphone.

What is considered invasion of privacy in a marriage? ›

Examples of privacy invasion include: Reading your partner's journal behind their back. Using your partner's fingerprint to unlock their phone when they're sleeping.

Is it okay to snoop on your spouse's phone? ›

You can see who they are talking to and what they are saying. If you look through a person's phone, it's an invasion of privacy. Whether you have a justified reason or not to look, it's important to think about the road you're taking to uncover the truth.

Is snooping through someone's phone illegal? ›

The Electronic Communications Privacy Act (ECPA) is a federal law that makes it a crime to access someone else's private communications without permission. It covers cell phones, computer use, email, social media accounts, and other types of electronic communications.

Does your spouse have a right to look at your phone? ›

Going through someone's phone without consent is typically considered an invasion of privacy, regardless of the fact that you are married. Personal boundaries and privacy rights still apply even if you suspect your spouse is hiding important information.

Is spousal spying illegal? ›

Even though you agreed to share your lives together, spying on your spouse is still illegal. Your partner has a reasonable expectation of privacy in certain areas of his or her life, including his or her password-protected accounts.

Can a wife check her husband's phone? ›

However, in a relationship, if trust has been broken and your significant other is trying to make you trust them again, then with their permission for a short period of time, it is okay to check their phone. This way trust and safety can be rebuilt. However, this should not become a habit.

Is it illegal for my husband to track my phone? ›

It is illegal for an individual to monitor another person's phone calls, emails, text messages, GPS location data without their consent.

Can you sue someone for spying on your phone? ›

“Invasion of privacy” is a blanket term used to describe many different actions. You can sue someone if they commit any of the following: Intrude on your solitude. Someone intrudes on your solitude when, without permission, they spy on you or intercept communications, such as telephone calls.

Can text messages prove adultery? ›

Private investigators can follow and collect evidence of a cheating spouse that can be used in your case. Social media, text messages, and call logs can be used in divorce cases to uncover hidden assets or income, provide proof of spousal misconduct, or provide evidence of poor parenting behavior.

Is it legal to track a cheating spouse? ›

If you're not careful, using technology to spy on your spouse may put you in more legal trouble than it's worth. You could face stalking or invasion of privacy charges.

Is it wrong for a husband to check his wife's phone? ›

So, is it OK to snoop through your partner's phone? The answer is almost never. In some cases, for instance, following a mistrust, there may be an agreement where you are given permission to look through the phone. This could be a way to rebuild trust but is usually temporary.

Is it right for your partner to check your phone? ›

"Under normal circ*mstances, and ideally, checking each other's phone is unnecessary, and not even a question. "People who check each other's phones have trust issues and insecurities, possibly resulting from previous incidents that made them believe they need to check up on their partner constantly," she says.

Can you sue someone for checking your phone? ›

Identify the invasion.

You can sue someone if they commit any of the following: Intrude on your solitude. Someone intrudes on your solitude when, without permission, they spy on you or intercept communications, such as telephone calls. Use your name or likeness without permission.

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