How to Stop Being a Clothes Hoarder - Getting My Act Together (2024)

March 22, 2023

How to Stop Being a Clothes Hoarder

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Today I am going to be talking about one of my favorite topics: decluttering your clothes and how to stop being a clothes hoarder!!

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I have a system for organizing clothes that I came up with many years ago. With this system, I never have to “clean out my closet” because it always stays cleaned out.

Oh, and yes, my clothes are still crammed in pretty tight because I do not have a great big walk in closet all to myself. I have a small walk-in closet that I share with my husband.

His clothes actually take up more of the closet than mine do, in my opinion. He might disagree with me though.

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Clothes are one of my favorite things in the world. If I were to hoard anything, this is what it would be. If you find that you have a tendency to keep too many clothes in your closet, and maybe even shoved into every closet in your house, this is for you.

The only Carrie Bradshaw quote I ever cared for: “I like my money where I can see it, hanging in my closet.” (or something like that)

I have a surefire clothing closet and drawers organizing system that will help you stop being a clothes hoarder forever.

Step 1: Watch the video below.

I will write it out, but I explain and show you the whole system in the video. It explains everything.

Step 2: If you haven’t cleaned out your closet in a long time, go through your clothes one by one and pull out anything that is too small, too big, too ugly, or too uncomfortable.

If you never want to wear it, you don’t need it.

Pile all those clothes in a donation bag, and drop them off anywhere that accepts used clothes. If you notice, there are usually donation bins around even in grocery store parking lots to drop off clothes.

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Step 3: Organize your closet into sections.

I divide mine into these sections:

-shirts and casual dresses for the current season

-shirts and casual dresses that are out of season

-jackets and sweaters

-event and church dresses

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We added this drop-down rod to create another section to hang clothes in my little closet.

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Step 4: Time to start your new system: Filing your clothes to the back to keep your clothes constantly rotated.

I explain this in the video more thoroughly.

Basically, every time you hang an item in your closet, file that item to the back of its section. This also helps make sure you don’t just wear the same five items over and over again.

Then when it is time to get dressed, you grab the first appropriate item for the occasion from its section.

You do not have to wear the very front shirt. But it helps you decide what to wear. I hate making decisions, so this is a HUGE reason I do this too.

I look at the front shirt, and if it doesn’t fit what I’m doing that day, I go to the next one, until I find one that is right.

Some days there are still days that NONE of my shirts are right. Ha! Then I just go back to the front and grab the first decent one.

This way you will rotate through all of your clothes. If a shirt spends too much time in the front spot, that is a red flag that you never seem to want or need that shirt. Maybe it is time to hand it off to the donation bag.

Obviously, super fancy clothes will not be needed often. I only own one that still fits, so no rotating required. I just keep it behind the rest of my event/church dresses.

I have been using this system for years, and I love the results of it. This is how I keep a reasonable amount of clothes in my closet instead of drowning in clothes.

Now I know when I see a shirt in front for several days, and I look at it and think, “Nyahhhh Bleh, not that one,” it’s time for that item to go.

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Step 5: Set your drawers up for success too.

I do not do this with all of my clothing types, like pajamas and socks, etc. But maybe I should!

So this is what I do with pants. I have one drawer for winter pants and one drawer for summer pants/shorts/skirts.

I file from left to right. The left is the front, the far right is the back. When I add laundered pants, they go on the last row, and I scoot the others forward.

This works the same way as my closet. I discover which ones I actually never wear because they spend too long hanging out in row one.

Currently, that spot is occupied by my leggings, but I have to keep leggings because when I do need them, nothing else will do.

If a pair is often too tight, I move them to the back row the day that they are snug. Usually, when they come around again, they fit fine. But if they are always tight and miserable, they gotta go.

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Then I have my in-between season pants, pictured here. Most of my shorts are packed and stored under my bed until summer. But these above-ankle length pants will get more space to spread out once I have stored a few of the winter pants away for the summer.

All total, I feel like I do own a lot of pants, but that is because I have finally managed to stay the same pants size for the past seven years. It’s getting iffy lately though….

So in conclusion, I think this is an AWESOME way to manage your inventory of clothes!!

It is so efficient for me. Now I just need to find a system like this for shoes!!

For more organizing and declutter tips, check out my articles on decluttering storage rooms or this one on a compact and safe way to preserve photos and memorabilia.

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FAQs

How to stop being a clothes hoarder? ›

OUR BEST DECLUTTERING TIPS
  1. Know your hoarding tendencies.
  2. Start small: 5 minutes at a time.
  3. Donate the clothes you don't wear anymore.
  4. Focus on one room at a time: the bathroom is a good place to start.
  5. Ask for help: declutter living rooms with your family or your friends.
Jan 25, 2022

Why am I hoarding clothes? ›

With hoarding disorder, items are usually saved because: You believe these items are unique or that you'll need them at some point in the future. You feel emotionally connected to items that remind you of happier times or represent beloved people or pets. You feel safe and comforted when surrounded by things.

How to stop enabling a hoarder? ›

As a hoarder may not want to admit to their behaviour, here are some effective actions to take to help people with hoarding disorder.
  1. Avoid Force. ...
  2. Create A Discussion. ...
  3. Show Your Love. ...
  4. Ask Them to Seek Professional Help. ...
  5. Ask Them Questions. ...
  6. Don't Clean Their Home. ...
  7. Educate Yourself. ...
  8. Ensure the Person Wants to Make a Change.
Jul 6, 2021

How do I stop being a messy hoarder? ›

Starting to manage your hoarding
  1. Set yourself small goals. ...
  2. Set a timer and try to tidy one area. ...
  3. Make a plan. ...
  4. Cancel things like magazine subscriptions or put up a 'no junk mail' sign. ...
  5. Come up with some rules. ...
  6. Explore new activities that don't involve buying or saving things.

What triggers hoarding disorder? ›

Researchers have identified other risk factors associated with hoarding disorder that may make it more likely that you'll develop the condition, including:
  • Having a relative with hoarding disorder.
  • Brain injury.
  • Traumatic life event.
  • Impulsive buying habits.
  • Inability to pass up free items, such as coupons and flyers.

How many clothes are too many clothes? ›

According to a report referenced by Vogue in 2022 that leans on sustainability goals, “The researchers found that a “sufficient” wardrobe consists of 74 garments and 20 outfits in total.

Can hoarders be cured? ›

It's not easy to treat a hoarding disorder, even when the person is prepared to seek help, but it can be overcome. The main treatment is cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT). The therapist will help the person to understand what makes it difficult to throw things away and the reasons why the clutter has built up.

What are the 5 stages of hoarding? ›

The five stages of hoarding are minimal clutter, mild clutter, moderate clutter, severe clutter, and extreme clutter. Signs of hoarding include acquisition, clutter, difficulty discarding, disorganization, difficulty with decision-making, social isolation and impairment.

What is the root cause of hoarding? ›

Some researchers believe hoarding can relate to childhood experiences of losing things, not owning things, or people not caring for you. This might include experiences like: Money worries or living in poverty in childhood. Having your belongings taken or thrown away by someone.

What should you not say to a hoarder? ›

Use respectful language. Don't refer to their possessions as 'junk' or 'rubbish'. This shows that you don't understand their connection to the objects or why they want to keep them. They will be less likely to open up to you if you talk about their things this way.

Is hoarding a form of ADHD? ›

Hoarding disorder develops from vulnerabilities, information-processing problems, and a perceived need to save items regardless of their value. It may co-occur with ADHD but is distinct from ADHD messiness or clutter.

Is a hoarder mentally ill? ›

And the impact of hoarding can affect your day-to-day life. Hoarding disorder is a mental health problem that a doctor can diagnose.

What childhood trauma causes hoarding? ›

Issues from childhood

Being deprived of or not having access to things they really want or need. Seeing their parents/family suffering from not having enough of something they want or need. Losing treasured items or having them taken away as a punishment or because of theft.

What does a level 1 hoarder look like? ›

Indicators include difficulty parting with redundant items, excessive shopping for items already in the home or not needed, accessible stairs, doors, and windows, no noticeable odors in the home, little to no visible clutter on surfaces or in walkways, and sanitation and cleanliness existing within the home.

Why are most hoarders female? ›

In men, hoarding is associated with generalized anxiety disorder and tics, while among women, hoarding is associated with social phobia, post-traumatic stress disorder, body dysmorphic disorder, and compulsive grooming behaviors like nail-biting and skin-picking.

What should I do if I have too many clothes? ›

How To Organize Your Closet When You Have Too Many Clothes
  1. Purge.
  2. Add Shelves.
  3. Add a Bar.
  4. Categorize Like Items.
  5. Explore Storage.
  6. Get Things Out.
Dec 7, 2023

What mental disorder is hoarding? ›

Compulsive or problematic hoarding behaviors occur in a variety of neuropsychiatric disorders, including obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD), schizophrenia, and dementia.

Is outfit anxiety a thing? ›

Thinking of all the other outfits you could've possibly worn today, you realise that there is no way out, and that tomorrow you will be back where you started. I am no fashion psychiatrist, but if any of that seemed familiar, you may have fashion anxiety.

Is hoarding money a mental illness? ›

Financial hoarding can be a symptom of financial anxiety. The Journal of Financial Therapy defines the disorder as a 'miserly spending style toward both self and others; money is viewed as something to be hoarded for future catastrophes'.

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